Shine Like Stars
This week has been such a healing week. The verse in Revelation that says “You will overcome him (the enemy) by the blood of the Lamb and the word of your testimony” has never made more sense to me. I always thought that it was the fact that we had a testimony…like “God has saved me.” But once i started putting the “Word of my testimony” and speaking the things that had kept me in captivity and silence for so many years I felt like the enemy was overcome in my life even more.
But i wanted to touch on the ending of the Self Injury stuff. I know that i didnt really resolve all of that for you all.
When i graduated High School and moved to Birmingham, AL i started an internship called TwentyFourSeven. It was the best and worst 2 years of my life all rolled into one. It was like a character pressure cooker….
When i began i knew that the rules and character commitments of TwentyFourSeven didnt permit me to be involved in Self Injury….and if you dont know me i am a rule follower. But mid way through the year a group of triggers occurred and i gave back in.
Honestly, in hindsight i sort of see it as a blessing. Stopping something cold turkey is hard and without people knowing it makes it really hard to stop and stay stopped.
So when i gave back into self injury i confessed and they got me counseling. I spent a year or so in counseling with an amazing woman who helped me work through the acceptance issues, shame and many other emotions that triggered my self injury habits.
Here’s the thing….i always had this scar on my wrist from where i had burned myself with a hot lighter….when i was stressed i would touch it. I would see it. I would think about how good it felt to hurt myself. And i would always think to my self
“If this God thing doesnt work out i know that i can always go back to self injury to comfort me.”
In my mind it was something that i could easily go back to….
But still no one knew. So no wonder I gave in.
After some time in counseling I was reading my Bible one morning and this verse stuck out to me….
Philippians 2:15
so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.
In context it is talking about doing things without complaining…but the last line “in which you shine like stars in the universe.” That line got me and stuck with me.
God said, Lynse your story of self injury is going to be used by me and you are my star shining in a crooked and depraved generation…..you shine like a star in the universe.
So…like most other times in my adult life i got a tattoo to remind me of that. ;) As i thought of location i thought my wrist was the best spot….over that scar.
The scar that reminded me i could go back.
Now instead of the scar i had the star reminding me that God was going to use me and I shine in the universe for Him.
AWESOME. I remember when you got it & had no idea of the meaning behind it!
yep…it probably makes a lot more sense now. haha!
Lynse, I have been reading your story all week.
God is definitely good. and He is infinitely wise… in that He is using the strength that He has given to you to make a difference.
The picture wrecked me.
His richest blessings on you.
God is definitely good. and He is infinitely wise… in that He is using the strength that He has given to you to make a difference.
That is the truest statement today!!
Thank you so much for reading this week.
oh i love that you did that. so significant in so many ways.
and i am so with you — putting words to my testimony has been freeing and healing for me. and to think that i'm overcoming the enemy by doing so… man, that makes my heart feel so much more victorious already.
dang, i'm proud of you.
Thank you. No one notices it really, but when they do and ask i get to tell them part of the story and share what God has done in me. So great!
I am so glad you have found this process of writing your story to bring freedom and healing…i didnt know if i was ready, but now i know that i was…and was scared for no reason.
I am also proud of you.
Thank you. No one notices it really, but when they do and ask i get to tell them part of the story and share what God has done in me. So great! I am so glad you have found this process of writing your story to bring freedom and healing…i didnt know if i was ready, but now i know that i was…and was scared for no reason. I am also proud of you.
a-ma-zing!
now that is an incredible story. the meaning, depth of connection of everything is awesome!
Thank you my dear friend. This one was not hard to write….God has been so good to me…and I cant wait until He uses me in Big ways….cause He stands by His promises.
I've been reading all week as well. I love the way it ended, so full of redemption. I absolutely love the story behind your tattoo. I think that is one of the best ones I've heard.
Thank you. God is so good at ending stories so well. The tattoo just made sense. It is probably my favourite because of the meaning….and no one ever thinks it is real cause it is pink. ha!
you're ALL RIGHT, girl… you are alright :)
Giirrrllll – this ROCKS – and it's my new favorite verse :)
Next time I see you …I"m gonna ask to see it in person
MORE blessings on your head – this was a great word!
"It" – your star tatoo …not the verse :) I got that one covered