Comments on: Talk it out http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/ through my eyes. between my ears. Wed, 18 Jan 2012 01:45:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: doug http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-905 doug Fri, 06 Feb 2009 18:08:01 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-905 Sorry I put the greek on your facebook. It is I Cor 8:6, yes a scripture. And as you said, if that is not helping , it might as well be in Greek till you get to the poing where you can digest and live out scripture. A hero of mine from 1098 had a motto: “faith seeking understanding”, which is basically talk it out. Sorry I put the greek on your facebook. It is I Cor 8:6, yes a scripture. And as you said, if that is not helping , it might as well be in Greek till you get to the poing where you can digest and live out scripture. A hero of mine from 1098 had a motto: “faith seeking understanding”, which is basically talk it out.

]]> By: elizabethhh annn :)) http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-901 elizabethhh annn :)) Thu, 05 Feb 2009 23:49:25 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-901 i agree!!! I would way rather talk it out and process all of the outcomes... etc.. i agree!!! I would way rather talk it out and process all of the outcomes… etc..

]]> By: nicole http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-893 nicole Wed, 04 Feb 2009 17:03:41 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-893 i am a processor too... most of the time the person i am talking to does not understand the need to talk.... they fix me or yell at me... it is so freaking frustrating.... i think that is why i pace when i pray...its kinda like :talking it out with God: i am a processor too…
most of the time the person i am talking to does not understand the need to talk….
they fix me or yell at me…
it is so freaking frustrating….
i think that is why i pace when i pray…its kinda like :talking it out with God:

]]> By: D-Monk http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-891 D-Monk Wed, 04 Feb 2009 14:10:51 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-891 Hey! Keep sharing. When you share your struggles you help the rest of us, too. I, myself, am really bad at processing. Talking through issues and feeling my emotions are a big weakness for me. So I tend to isolate and that has led me to separation from Christ. Whatever you do, please don't follow my road. Isolation is a vicious circle. I don't think anyone could love me if they knew the truth about me. I am the only one who can take care of me. So I isolate to care for myself. Then I find I am lonely. Why am I lonely? It must be because nobody loves me. I am the only one who can care for me, etc......... <abbr><em>D-Monk’s last blog post..<a href="http://d-monk.blogspot.com/2009/01/lifeworkbook-principle-one-assignment.html" rel="nofollow">L.I.F.E.Workbook: Principle One - Assignment Two</a></abbr></em> Hey!

Keep sharing. When you share your struggles you help the rest of us, too.

I, myself, am really bad at processing. Talking through issues and feeling my emotions are a big weakness for me. So I tend to isolate and that has led me to separation from Christ.

Whatever you do, please don’t follow my road. Isolation is a vicious circle. I don’t think anyone could love me if they knew the truth about me. I am the only one who can take care of me. So I isolate to care for myself. Then I find I am lonely. Why am I lonely? It must be because nobody loves me. I am the only one who can care for me, etc………

D-Monk’s last blog post..L.I.F.E.Workbook: Principle One – Assignment Two

]]> By: Michelle Jeffcoat http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-890 Michelle Jeffcoat Tue, 03 Feb 2009 20:48:53 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-890 Can I please just tell you HOW much I can relate to your quandry!? I am a processor - big time - and can read scripture, be told it, already KNOW it, and feel at peace by the knowing and hearing it BUT "be still and know" comes ONLY after I have processed the problem, picked at it, turned it upside down, and looked at it under the microscope. I do think it is not an abnormal female trait. YEARS ago I started going to a "counselor" - specifically to talk through some really difficult things. I love it, and have been going (on and off )ever since. She hardly ever tells me anything that I don't already know - just lets me process - and validates my feelings. The best piece of advice she ever gave me was to journal. Journaling clears the "muck" off the top of my mind so that I can get down to the meat of what's going on. Sort of what processing helps to do. Once the noise is gone, I can absorb the scriptures AND the meanings much more clearly. Can I please just tell you HOW much I can relate to your quandry!? I am a processor – big time – and can read scripture, be told it, already KNOW it, and feel at peace by the knowing and hearing it BUT “be still and know” comes ONLY after I have processed the problem, picked at it, turned it upside down, and looked at it under the microscope. I do think it is not an abnormal female trait. YEARS ago I started going to a “counselor” – specifically to talk through some really difficult things. I love it, and have been going (on and off )ever since. She hardly ever tells me anything that I don’t already know – just lets me process – and validates my feelings. The best piece of advice she ever gave me was to journal. Journaling clears the “muck” off the top of my mind so that I can get down to the meat of what’s going on. Sort of what processing helps to do. Once the noise is gone, I can absorb the scriptures AND the meanings much more clearly.

]]> By: deena http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-889 deena Tue, 03 Feb 2009 20:31:29 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-889 i was just talking about this the other night. when i have issues/things to deal with....i rarely talk to people i know that will give me answers. more or less. i mean, i do at times. but my grandmother was always the best at this. she always helped me think through things by asking me questions. i have a few friends that do this. and this is my method of talking with others about their things. <abbr><em>deena’s last blog post..<a href="http://deenanour.blogspot.com/2009/01/12609.html" rel="nofollow">1.26.09</a></abbr></em> i was just talking about this the other night. when i have issues/things to deal with….i rarely talk to people i know that will give me answers. more or less. i mean, i do at times. but my grandmother was always the best at this. she always helped me think through things by asking me questions. i have a few friends that do this. and this is my method of talking with others about their things.

deena’s last blog post..1.26.09

]]> By: Chris http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-888 Chris Tue, 03 Feb 2009 15:18:10 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-888 Um it really does depend on what the situation is. I have some really great and supportive friends in my life. So generally Ill urn to them for a shoulder to cry on and also for advice. If the situation is really bad sometimes I just withdraw into myself. I find a hole and Ill bury myself inside of it. But for the mundane situations that are stressful I find Ill just take a few seconds to send up a quick prayer and take a deep breath. But Lynse, whats wrong? What can I do to help? You have my number and if you feel comfortable enough sharing, text away! Um it really does depend on what the situation is.

I have some really great and supportive friends in my life. So generally Ill urn to them for a shoulder to cry on and also for advice.

If the situation is really bad sometimes I just withdraw into myself. I find a hole and Ill bury myself inside of it.

But for the mundane situations that are stressful I find Ill just take a few seconds to send up a quick prayer and take a deep breath.

But Lynse, whats wrong? What can I do to help? You have my number and if you feel comfortable enough sharing, text away!

]]> By: sara http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/2009/02/02/talk-it-out/comment-page-1/#comment-887 sara Tue, 03 Feb 2009 04:07:36 +0000 http://www.lynseleanne.com/blog/?p=973#comment-887 oh, i'm the same way. verbal processor. i think the problem for friends, even good ones, is that they feel the need to say something positive, because they are for you. the problem is, it comes across like, well, like it has been for you :) i need to talk things out, then process them, then talk about them SOME MORE with someone who will let me, won't judge me, but also over time won't let me get away with wallowing. hoping you have that...but if you ever need that long-distance from colorado in an email setting, you know where to find me :) <abbr><em>sara’s last blog post..<a href="http://saradarling.wordpress.com/2009/02/02/i-like-it-when/" rel="nofollow">i like it when…</a></abbr></em> oh, i’m the same way. verbal processor. i think the problem for friends, even good ones, is that they feel the need to say something positive, because they are for you. the problem is, it comes across like, well, like it has been for you :) i need to talk things out, then process them, then talk about them SOME MORE with someone who will let me, won’t judge me, but also over time won’t let me get away with wallowing. hoping you have that…but if you ever need that long-distance from colorado in an email setting, you know where to find me :)

sara’s last blog post..i like it when…

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